Hi @bill,
Unfortunately, this feature from our theme is only supported when Youzer is deactivated. Youzer has its very own set of options and I’m sure if that possible to achieve with those.
Maybe it’s best if you try to reach the plugin authors. They will be more informed and better suited to help you.
To go further, we invite you to post your request on their support forums:
https://codecanyon.net/item/youzer-new-wordpress-user-profiles-era/19716647/support
Please note that for ethical reasons and religious beliefs, the Youzer support team will not answer any questions related with dating websites.
We remain available for all support requests related with the use of your theme.
Best,